When it comes for failure, either we can be grateful to find our mistakes to be fixed to be better or have to become dragged and can't move on because of flaws that seen by others. Flaws are just common because they are natural. There are many things that is just at mind and there is nothing to do with reality because they were just like a plain and rude road. When a person not used to deal with reality it is just like live in imaginary world which is will make shock therapy because of just thinking at inside, inner paradise that is really cluttered in a real world. But confidence is not build overnight, it is the compilation for every mistakes and fixes that has been experienced, quickly. Otherwise, it is just at standard line.